Respecting, Not Obeying: Rethinking Leadership and Submission in the Body of Christ
Respecting, Not Obeying: Rethinking Leadership and Submission in the Body of Christ In many church circles today, Hebrews 13:17 is often cited to demand blind obedience to church leaders: “Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls…” (ESV) But a closer look at the Greek word translated “obey” reveals a different picture. The word peitho carries the idea of being persuaded, not simply submitting to a hierarchical command. Many translations and lexicons support this softer, more relational nuance: “Be persuaded by your leaders” — implying a mutual dialogue, not top-down rule. This understanding harmonizes with Acts 26:28, where King Agrippa says to Paul, “You almost persuade me to become a Christian.” The same Greek word is used — peitho — and it clearly has nothing to do with obedience by force, but with reasoning and influence. Church leadership, then, should be about persuasion and guidance, not control. Humility, Not Hierarchy Peter echoes ...