Abuse in the Old Covenant
Abuse in the Old Covenant
Was a woman under the mercy of her husband if she wanted
a divorce in the Old Testament?
Not necessarily. The OC wife could file a divorce claim
to the Jewish Court for review. One example is a lack of provision in Exo
21:10-11. If deemed neglectful or abusive, or if the husband drags out the
legal proceedings, they can pressure him by targeting his social reputation or
use other methods to make him approve the divorce.
Although scripture teaches marital principles,
it wasn't intended to be a manifesto on marriage.
For example the
following OC scenarios are probable and considered legitimate reasons for
divorce, but not clearly listed in scripture:
Husband murders a
slave/child. Tells wife to keep it a secret. Exo 21:20-21.
Giving money to Mother
Withholding sexual
intimacy
Gambling. Taking
multiple high rate loans to financially hurt the family. Ecc 5:5.
Harboring dangerous
Gentile fugitives.
Husband constantly
forcing wife to have sex during menstrual cycle. Lev 15:19-33.
Not giving her the
proper Lev 12 purification sacrifice or giving a sacrifice of bad quality.
Pressuring her/kids
into Baal worship/sorcery.
Pressuring her to
eat unclean animals.
Child molestation
Physical abuse.
Laying hands on a wife was treating them like a slave.Exo 21:26-27, Deut 21:14.
If a battered slave can be set free, how much more a Jewish woman?
Verbal abuse.
Destroying her reputation in a small, honor culture community. Deut 22:13-19.
Pressuring the wife
to stay married when the husband contracted leprosy. Not an easy situation, but
it's a possibility. Lev 13.
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